Hard Sell to Men and Lose the Women — Soft Sell to Women and Keep the Men

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Register now for Bridging Heart and Marketing
the first-ever soft sell Internet marketing conference.
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Customer satisfaction is the key to a continually growing, successful business – a finding securely demonstrated by companies as diverse as BMW, Wyndham Hotels, and Merrill Lynch. And a marketing campaign focused on appealing to women has more power to attract and retain men.

While Internet marketing has, to date, been dominated by men, more and more women are finding a home on the Internet. Female entrepreneurs are taking their marketing style and skills online and are generating a growing market base — including men. Yet, to date, there hasn’t been an Internet marketing conference with their needs and marketing style in mind.

Well, we’re doing something about that.

We’re producing Bridging Heart and Marketing, the first-ever Soft Sell Internet marketing conference.

Just to be clear, our conference is not just for women. Intelligent marketing includes men and women and they both benefit. In fact so far we have a pretty well balanced registration between men and women.

But on the Internet, Soft Sell marketing has been a second sister to the grab-em-and-sell-em-now approach that has been predominant online.

There’s been an unquestioned belief in the traditional sales approach that if you don’t close them now, if you don’t get the check right now, you’ll never get a another chance. So there’s a built-in silent desperation that leads to the hard sell tactics many of us are used to seeing online, tactics that turn the sales transaction into the contest most of us put up a resistance to.

But Soft Sell is about creating rapport, about building a relationship. You can’t do that by metaphorically grabbing somebody by the collar — at least not most people.

Men and women want the same things. But characteristically, women want and need more information before they are comfortable making a purchase. When they come to a decision, they are likely to have included everything most men want as well.

So when you market to satisfy women, you will have not only included most if not all of what men want, but you probably have showed men some aspect of your product or service they may not have considered.

So you keep the men.

In this case the differences work in favor of both women and men. That’s why we say, “Soft sell to women and keep the men.”

And our Bridging Heart and Marketing conference, is the first-ever Internet marketing conference designed to be heart-based without excluding the bottom line. We want to eradicate the myth that there’s a contradiction between heart and money. There isn’t. Thinking that way is archaic and undermines profit.

A well-crafted soft sell Internet marketing campaign will create a strong sense of connection along with the follow-up sense of loyalty while at the same time generating predictable and substantial profits.

For full details about the conference visit Bridging Heart and Marketing.

Also, we are offering 12 free preview tele-trainings we’re doing with each member of our world class faculty. To see the schedule and get registered for those tele-calls you should go to Bridging Heart and Marketing Preview Calls.

Because It’s All in the Connection . . .

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4 Responses to “Hard Sell to Men and Lose the Women — Soft Sell to Women and Keep the Men”

  1. Krishna Says:

    Dear Judith and Jim
    I work with massage therapists to help them to alleviate the fear of promoting themselves by providing them with do-it-yourself knowledge to do so. However, I find them very reluctant to both hard and soft sell! There seems to be a resistance to putting themselves into the equation and developing a relationship with their clients. Some feel making a phone call to followup a treatment is telemarketing, when it is just taking a genuine interest. There is a fear that they will receive negative feedback, which of course can be used constructively. Most therapists are content to use very passive means of marketing such as handing out a flyer or placing a press ad. From a psychological perspective how would you suggest I breach this issue (Other then sending them to your site of course!)?
    Yours in anticipation!!
    Krishna Everson
    www.marketyourmassage.com

  2. Jim Says:

    Krishna,

    They have an antiquated, albeit pervasive, misunderstanding of the idea of “selling.” They see selling as primarily an exchange of services for money. They truly do not see the emotional, psychological, and spiritual value they offer through their work. So, in effect, thay do not value themselves.

    Also, the passivity toward business most therapists exhibit stems from their training which insists, unlike the coaching profession, that they not push or direct their clients. That includes massage therapists. But, it’s important to understand that they are attracted to a passive profession because it reflects their own initial passivity.

    So, what to do?

    This problem does not have one simple answer. So you should deal with them as a coach, who is directive and determined.

    We suggest you order our “Overcoming Negative Head Talk” program which will also give you, if you choose the upgrade, our “Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous” download. Also, you can become an affiliate for these products and make them available to your clients and you will receive a commission.

    http://www.judithandjim.com/overcomingnegativeheadtalk

    You can become a model for them to emulate — and you should assume that position.

    Jim
    http://www.bridgingheartandmarketing.com/blog

  3. Tom Says:

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