“Intimate Marketing” – The New Wave of Internet Marketing

By Judith & Jim

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Register now for Bridging Heart and Marketing
the first-ever soft sell Internet marketing conference.
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The Internet has opened many and varied ways for consumers to search for, select, and buy what they are looking for. It’s no secret that, as a result, the consumer has more control over the process than ever before. This profound shift in the producer/consumer relationship has led to equally profound shifts in the way marketers need to market on the Internet. Now the word “relationship,” and the connection that implies, carries more emotional and profit-filled meaning than ever before, and is truly at the heart of the seller/buyer exchange.

To go to the heart of Intimate Marketing, we’ve scheduled Justin Livingston, known as the Magnetic Marketer, as one of the speakers during our “Bridging Heart and Marketing” conference. He will show those who attend how to create an emotional connection with their customers that lasts – and it’s all about intimacy.

According to Justin, marketing, in its simplest form, is ‘lead generation’. You send your marketing message to as many people as possible, allow them to ‘self select’ or ‘choose themselves’ as being interested in your product.

His point is that intimacy is inherent in the customer’s self-selection process. The customer/prospect is agreeing to participate instead of being coaxed, cajoled, or coerced into making the purchase.

They do so through their own conscious choice, their own willful agreement – because they know, more and more, what control they have over the process, especially on the Internet.

Internet marketing is very different from traditional mass broadcast or print advertising because the marketing message enters the customer’s private space – office or home – via the computer. It’s true that television, for example, does the same thing. But the Internet/computer is an interactive media giving the customer an interactive voice in the process.

Justin makes the key principle that learning who your customer is – so you can more specifically direct your message to your buyer – is more important now than ever, because of the personal nature of the Internet.

Try as they may, newspaper or TV ads can never be personal, because everyone who sees them knows, even unconsciously, they are meant to be seen by as many people as possible. But when a message comes into your computer via your personal email address, that’s like getting a letter from a friend or colleague. It’s just between the two of you and that’s intimate.

In real terms, it’s like becoming one with your customer so that when your message arrives, the reader has the feeling of being personally addressed, because they are, for two reasons: first, because you, the marketer, truly knows who they are; and 2) because you craft your message to be as authentic, transparent, and emotionally present as you can.

It’s the emotional connection that’s the true bottom line. That’s real marketing intimacy.

So if Intimate Marketing is what you’re doing, or what you’re looking to do, just click on “Bridging Heart and Marketing” and you’ll get all the details for “Bridging Heart and Marketing,” the first-ever soft sell Internet marketing conference – taking place at the Westin Los Angeles Airport February 22nd , 23rd, and 24th.

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Comments

  1. Jeanette says:

    Wow! I love your refreshing message and look forward to implementing your marketing practices. I think my sales copy, for which I paid thousands, didn’t ring true. When I softened the push, I sold more books. I’ll let you know if the changes I make after learning more from you work even better.

    Thank you.

    Joy,

    Jeanette Fisher
    http://thebookrace.com

  2. Jeanne May says:

    Hi Judith and Jim…

    I think it’s imperative that we look to the relationship aspect in marketing… there’s been a huge shift over the last few years and people now respond more to a personalised approach than hard sell almost bullying marketing.

    Marketing is a whole new ball game for me… I’m a psychologist and because I have changed direction in the work I do, I’m relying now more on the Internet to get out there. Since I’ve made myself conscious of marketing… I quickly realised that marketing actually never stops. No matter what you are doing, who you are doing it with you are in the sense marketing. People respond to genuine approaches… and the trust factor is imperative.

    I love your articles… I learn so much from you both.

    Many thanks
    Jeanne
    http://aspirationsplus.typepad.com/uydayg

  3. Thank you for your comment.

    We totally agree. In the end, as profitable as it might be, the bullying style does more harm than good. It does not take into consideration the impact on the psyches of those who are impacted — directly or indirectly.

    Our blog is new and we’re working to bring the soft sell community together — thus our “Bridging Heart and Marketing” conference. We ask that you pass on the blog URL to the soft sellers you know

    http://www.bridgingheartandmarketing.com/blog

    And you can register for the blog by entering your email address in the box with the Submit button. That way you’ll be notified each time a new post appears.

  4. Jeannette,

    Thank you for your comment.

    We’ve had the same experience with our copy. More inclusive, better sales.

    We’d love to hear back from you.

    Our blog is new and we’re working to bring the soft sell community together — thus our “Bridging Heart and Marketing” conference. We ask that you pass on the blog URL to the soft sellers you know

    http://www.bridgingheartandmarketing.com/blog

    Because It’s All in the Connection

    Judith & Jim

  5. Jeannette,

    We’ve had the same experience with our copy. More inclusive, better sales.

    We’d love to hear back from you.

    Our blog is new and we’re working to bring the soft sell community together — thus our “Bridging Heart and Marketing” conference. We ask that you pass on the blog URL to the soft sellers you know

    http://www.bridgingheartandmarketing.com/blog

    Because It’s All in the Connection

    Judith & Jim

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